I have always been open to exploring ways to please my partner better and help her achieve sexual satisfaction. I have a healthy attitude and figure 'if she is happy then I will be happy'. When I was younger, I did not play with toys or devices to enhance sex, simply because I did not know how they could increase our sexual pleasure. I guess I was just happy to be having sex at all and neglected the enjoyment of sexually exploring with a lover.

Now don't get me wrong, sex was always ok. I enjoyed it and my girlfriend said she enjoyed it too, but I didn't want an 'ok' sex life. I wanted to have a mind-blowing, earth-shattering sex life. Our 'ok' sex life was good enough for my girlfriend and I, but then...